Steps to Take When a Loved One Passes Away

Losing someone you love is never easy. As you grieve their loss and celebrate their memory, the last thing you want to consider is: what do I do next? Is there anything I am forgetting? One of our top priorities at Evans & Davis is to eliminate those burdens and stressors from our clients’ plates by providing helpful resources. We want to share a few pieces of advice for actions you should take when you lose someone you love:

Steps to Take When a Loved One Passes Away

Within the first 48 hours, you should:

  • Notify immediate family & close friends
  • Arrange for care of dependents, if any
  • Notify the attending physician or coroner
  • Handle the donation of bodily organs to an “organ bank” if appropriate
  • Arrange care for pets, if any
  • Find & review the decedent’s expressed funeral and burial wishes
  • Meet with a trusted local funeral home
  • Locate social security card, driver’s license, passport, birth certificate, Native American ID

Within the First Week:

  • Contact Evans & Davis to schedule a consultation
  • Locate Wills, Codicils & Trusts
  • Evaluate the emotional impact on the surviving relatives & friends; arrange for support
  • Evaluate the need for security at the Decedent’s residence
  • Find perishable property (food, plants, etc.) & arrange for care or disposal
  • If military, contact the appropriate branch of service & provide 48-hour notice for funeral services
  • Investigate veterans burial allowance and other benefits
  • Notify the agent under any power of attorney
  • Prepare and arrange for an obituary
  • Arrange for mortuary, cemetery, burial, cremation, as appropriate
  • Arrange funeral/burial services
  • Notify other members of family & friends
  • Contact Social Security, Medicaid, & other agencies as appropriate
  • Obtain death certificates, 10-15 will be appropriate
  • DO NOT pay any of the Decedent’s outstanding utility, medical, and credit card bills until the attorney discusses with the family, executor, or successor trustee
  • Keep all records of all payments for funeral and other expenses
  • Change utility bills from Decendent’s name

First Month:

  • Cancel or rearrange home deliveries or subscriptions
  • Have the post office hold mail or transfer it to a new address
  • Locate safe deposit box(es) & keys
  • Locate Personal Property Memorandum, if any
  • Locate beneficiaries of Decedent’s estate plan
  • Locate life insurance policies
  • Locate other important documents, relationships, accounts, investments, etc.
  • Locate any real property, deeds, or minerals titled in Decedent’s name
  • Investigate Social Security benefits & life insurance
  • Investigate union death benefits for unions and fraternal organizations
  • Investigate employee benefits, including accrued vacation pay, death benefits, final wages, retirement plans, deferred compensation, & medical reimbursements
  • Investigate refunds on insurance or canceled subscriptions
  • Investigate 401K, IRA, or other employee retirement benefits
  • Determine if the Decedent owned interest in a business or investments and acquire corporate documents, buy-sell agreements, etc.
  • Retain and meet with CPA as to tax and accounting matters
  • Meet with your attorney and life insurance agent to collect death benefits or consider other options
  • Locate and handle any fire, theft, liability & auto insurance on Decedent’s property (real estate, vehicles, etc.)
  • Work with attorney and CPA to prepare an inventory of assets, i.e., list of accounts, debts, & liabilities
  • Review credit cards and charge accounts, cancel as appropriate
  • Evaluate any loans remaining in the Decedent’s name and if they should be paid, dismissed, or retitled
  • In conjunction with your attorney, obtain a tax/FEIN number for the estate or trust from the IRS

Three to Six Months:

  • Obtain valuations or appraisals of assets, as appropriate
  • Arrange for final income tax return & estate tax return, as necessary
  • Notify Equifax
  • Change mortgage to surviving spouse, if appropriate
  • Conduct estate sale, if necessary

Six Months to One Year:

  • If Trust is involved, arrange for any allocations and transfers after your attorney has prepared appropriate release for the beneficiaries to sign
  • File probate, if needed
  • Work to finalize trust administration
  • File final tax returns
  • Tie up any loose ends

Looking for Guidance?

Evans & Davis immediately steps in to assist our clients with the probate or trust administration process. If your loved one dies with or without a will in place, their estate will have to go through probate court. If a trust is in place, we will determine which assets are titled in the name of the trust and if any assets remain titled in their personal name. We will assist with collecting life insurance death benefits, selling properties, notifying beneficiaries, and distributing the assets to the beneficiaries as designated in the trust. Evans & Davis will also update your personal estate planning documents (i.e. wills, trusts, financial and healthcare powers of attorney, and advance directives) that might be affected by the loss of your loved one.

We Are Here to Help

All of our team at Evans & Davis is here to serve as a resource to help you navigate through this difficult time. We know how overwhelming it can be to experience losing a spouse, parent, sibling, friend, or any other special person in your life. Our hope is that being equipped with this information can provide a sense of direction and comfort should you have a loss of your own.

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